We are a married m/f couple who are relatively experienced in the lifestyle. She is bi and I am straight. We both have multiple tattoos, both have toung rings, he has a P.A. We are both of the opinion that it's best to meet the other party* other couple, single female, etc. etc. * someplace nice w/a relaxed atmosphere bar, restaurant, etc. etc.* get to knwo one another and go from there. Even if things don't turn out to be physical you can never have too many friends. We do have hard limits *i.e. no animals, no "watersports" , and no children* but just about anything else depends on the situation and the mood of the evening
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